Meeting Strangers Safely
GatherRound does not host, supervise, or monitor events. This guide offers practical tips to help you make informed decisions when meeting new people through independently hosted events.
Your safety is our priority. Here's how to protect yourself when meeting new people.
Quick Tips
- Meet in public places for first-time events
- Tell someone where you're going
- Trust your instincts — leave if something feels off
- Don't share personal info until you're comfortable
Before the Event
Preparing ahead of time helps you spot potential issues early and gives you more control over your experience before you arrive.
Do Your Research
- Check the host's profile and ratings
- Look for verified badges (identity verification)
- Read comments and reviews from past attendees
- Note the venue — is it a public space or private residence?
Tell Someone
- Share event details with a friend or family member
- Let them know when you expect to return
- Consider setting up a check-in time
Plan Your Transportation
- Know how you'll get there and back
- Don't rely on others for rides until you know them
- Keep your phone charged
At the Event
Stay Aware
- Keep your belongings with you
- Don't leave drinks unattended
- Note the exits and your surroundings
Trust Your Gut
- If something feels wrong, it probably is
- You can always leave — no explanation needed
- Don't let social pressure override your instincts
Set Boundaries
- It's okay to decline personal questions
- You don't have to share contact info
- Leave when you're ready, not when others expect
For Private/Home Events
Private residence events are optional and carry additional risk. GatherRound does not verify home safety conditions, and attendance is entirely at your discretion.
Private events at someone's home carry additional considerations:
- Consider bringing a friend to your first event with a new host
- Make sure someone knows the exact address
- Keep your phone accessible
- It's okay to decline home events until you know people better
Red Flags to Watch For
- Pressure to share personal information
- Requests to change venues last minute
- Dismissing your concerns or boundaries
- Aggressive or manipulative behavior
- Requests for money or favors
If Something Goes Wrong
- Leave immediately if you feel unsafe
- Contact emergency services if there's immediate danger (911)
- Report the incident through GatherRound's reporting tools
- Document what happened while it's fresh in your mind
Remember
Most GatherRound users are genuine people looking for gaming friends. These precautions aren't about distrust — they're about smart safety practices when meeting anyone new.
Your safety matters more than any game night.